Solo But Never Alone: A Woman’s Guide to Planning an Empowering Solo Holiday

Have you ever considered booking a trip just for yourself? No waiting on friends, no compromising your plans, just you, your suitcase, and a destination calling your name.

Solo holidays aren’t just holiday's— they’re an act of self-trust, growth, and freedom. As a solo-travelling woman, I’ve learned that these trips can be deeply empowering, but they also take smart planning and awareness.

So whether you’re dreaming of a beach escape, a cultural city break, or a countryside retreat, here’s everything you need to know — from safety and socialising to packing light and booking excursions.

1. The Planning Stage: Know Before You Book

Choose the Right Destination:

• Pick a place that excites you and feels safe.

• Look for cities or towns with: Low crime rates

• Positive reviews from female solo travellers

• Rich culture or activities that suit you

All-Inclusive vs. Half Board vs. B&B

Each has its own vibe:

• All-Inclusive: Stress-free, everything handled.

• Half Board: Great balance — breakfast and dinner included, freedom during the day.

• Bed & Breakfast: Ideal for cultural experiences and solo-friendly local activities.

Excursions Are Your Friend

Pre-book a few activities to ease into the trip confidently — like guided hikes, or city tours.

Group activities are great for meeting people naturally.

Transfers Matter

Book your hotel transfer in advance. It’s safer, smoother, and removes unnecessary stress after a flight.

2. Travel Light, Move Freely

Why Light Is Right:

• Dragging a heavy suitcase alone? Not fun.

• Travelling light gives you more flexibility, less stress at check-in, and fewer chances of lost items

Essentials Checklist:

• Copy of passport & travel insurance

• Portable charger

• Comfortable shoes

• Versatile outfits

• Lightweight scarf or cover-up

• Journal or book for solo moments

3. The Emotional Side: From Nerves to Growth

Feeling nervous before a solo trip? Totally normal.

You might wonder:

• Will I feel awkward eating alone?

• What if I get lonely or something goes wrong?

Truth is, the growth starts the moment you board that plane.

You learn to enjoy your own company, make decisions for yourself, and be present in a way you rarely are when traveling with others.

“Being alone doesn’t mean being lonely. It means being free.”

4. Staying Safe While Staying Present

You don’t have to travel scared — just smart.

✅ My Top Solo Safety Tips:

• Share your location with someone you trust

• Keep hotel & emergency contacts written down

• Stick to public areas after dark

• Walk with confidence (even when unsure!)

• Blend in: respect local customs and dress codes

Staying safe doesn’t mean living in fear — it’s about moving with awareness and intention.

5. Making Friends (When You Want To)

Yes, solo travel can still be social.

Tips to Connect With Others:

• Join small group excursions

• Sit at the bar or communal tables at restaurants

• Be open to conversations with locals and other travellers

But also: it’s more than okay to enjoy your own company. Sometimes, that’s the best part.

6. How Long Should You Go For?

If it’s your first solo trip, try 3 to 5 days. That’s enough time to explore, unwind, and test the waters without feeling overwhelmed. As your confidence grows, you can try longer stays or even multi-destination trips.

7. The Aftermath: You Did That!

• You booked it.

• You flew.

• You explored.

• You handled it all. Now you’ve returned with more than memories.

You’ve gained:

• Confidence

• Independence

This proof that you don’t need to wait for anyone to live fully. Solo travel gives you power — and you bring that power back home into your everyday life.

Final Thoughts:

Book the Flight, Sis.

This isn’t just a holiday — it’s a personal achievement, a reset, a reminder of who you are outside of your roles and routines.

So if you’ve been waiting for a sign? This is it. Let yourself discover what happens when you think of YOU.